Divorce, no matter how amicable, can be a stressful and traumatic time. Divorce is especially difficult when minors are involved. Keeping your wits about you before and during this taxing time can be a struggle, but it is possible.

Your life and the lives of your children are about to change considerably, and it helps to be prepared for the outcome. Navigating divorce law is best done with a solicitor on your side. There are a few things that you will need to figure out with your divorce attorney such as custody and maintenance of your children, finances, alimony and the division of assets.

The Difference Between Separation and Divorce

The main difference between a legal separation and divorce is that a divorce ends the marriage and the separation does not. Many experts will agree that a trial separation should be considered before the proceedings of a divorce are undertaken. Separation gives both couples the time and space to live apart and to think things through rationally and not in an emotionally charged environment.

Separation is especially beneficial to the welfare of the entire family when minors are concerned. As divorce is a major decision financially, emotionally and legally, separation can be a trial period to working on a relationship before committing to a divorce.

Trial separations should not last longer than 6 months as the chances of repairing a marriage significantly decrease after the first 6 months. During the separation period, marriage counselling should be undertaken to constructively work on differences and issues that seem impossible to resolve. If a marriage can be saved by a separation, there will be no regrets or a costly and final mistake.

Divorce

If you are absolutely sure that getting a divorce is what you unequivocally want, it is best to work with expert solicitors who can offer advice and information on the process. IBB Solicitors have a highly respected team of accredited divorce lawyers who will handle your divorce and guide you along the way during proceedings.

Divorce proceedings can take months and even years if the divorce is contested. Amicable divorces tend to take less time. Often the divorce process can be confusing in addition to long-winded which is why seeking advice before starting proceedings is often helpful. If your marriage has broken down beyond retrieve, the best solution would be to finalise divorce proceedings with a professional and experienced solicitor.

Emotional Support

Emotions will run high before and during the divorce period, so it is important to try not to make emotional decisions during this time. Avoid taking advice from friends, family or peers as this can often cloud your judgement and confuse you. The best option is to discuss everything with your solicitor and heed their advice.

If you feel overwhelmed by the process, consider seeing a therapist to help you through this demanding time. Patience and understanding will go far in ensuring a smooth transition from married life to divorced life. If you cannot afford a therapist, consider joining a support group of like-minded individuals who can be pillars of great support during and after a divorce.


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